Wooden On Adversity

John Wooden devised and collected a number of statements regarding the best way to respond to difficult situations.

•  “Don’t whine. Don’t complain Don’t make excuses.” 
• “Bad times can make you bitter or better.”
• “Never make excuses. Your friends won't need them and your foes won't believe them.”
• “Things usually turn out the best for people who make the best out of the way things turn out.”
• “Disagree without being disagreeable.”
• “It is important to note that talking directly to a person about a situation you are not happy with is not whining or complaining, provided that person is in a position to effect a change and your approach is respectful. Always facilitate feedback from others and not have them feel like they like are complaining when they disagree with you. However, if your complaints are such that no one is able to do anything about them, then you must be the one to effect the change yourself. Complaining, whining, and making excuses just keep you out of the present. “

—The Coaching and Leadership Journal

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